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You must be a troll then. Tagged as such.
You must be a troll then. Tagged as such.
I sure am judging you 🤢
We’re literally having this conversation because you just can’t accept that not all men deserve to be placed in your generalisation that men = bad. So when you say I “think it is about me personally”, why not stop generalising then? That’ll solve the issue. Say you pick the bear because of the bad ones out there, and not because no man is trustworthy. That will at least clarify that it’s an argument from emotions and not logic, since if you try to break it down statistically this stops making rational sense.
Everything I asked, since my first comment, was to stop generalising. Why is this so offensive to you that you had to go this far? And for what? You’re basically proving my point that you’re only listening to yourself and have no empathy for the 9/10 other innocent guys you lump together with your generalising.
You’re once again equating me to the worst men you know. Simply because I defend myself from an undeserved insult for being a man. I can’t tell anyone’s orientation either, but what I know is that there is a close to 0 chance of SA from someone who’s not interested in your gender, which is the main “bear” argument.
And of course I’m equating being ostracized and beleaguered by women in general to a punishment, who wouldn’t? Should I stop caring just because I’m not interested in them romantically? No, it fucking sucks to be told along the lines of: you’re part of this group which you have no control over, and thus you deserve all the shit we say online about you, oh but don’t worry it’s not applicable to you specifically, we’d just still pick a bear over your kind, is all.
It’s also permissive to say I can’t complain about you all picking bear and insinuating we’re all equally as bad as the worst out there.
I’m gay, I’m literally part of the group of men who would never be dangerous to a woman. Yet all I hear is all women are scared of the group I belong to (being a man) even though I’ve done nothing to deserve it. Then when I defend myself by bringing up how the math doesn’t check out suddenly I “don’t get it”.
It’s infuriating.
Don’t get me wrong, you’re totally allowed to have fears. But punishing the majority for the mistakes of a minority is literally a war crime. I should be allowed to defend myself as well without backlash.
Of course you’d call it that. Hard to deny your misandry from the past 20 comments though.
As long as you keep repeating your power fantasy that all men are below you and disgusting somehow, and expecting all men to shut up and take it…
No matter what I say that disagrees with your power play, you’ll say I’m missing the point lmao. Grow the fuck up.
You don’t want to avoid men, you’re actively going to internet forums and insulting all men. That’s not avoidance, it’s misandry.
Strawman goes brrr. You really don’t want to acknowledge that there is no getting away from a bear that wants to catch you lmao.
Also, make me laugh, subjugate women? By wanting them to acknowledge that picking “bear” is offensive to 99% of the population? You’re just avoiding the topic by putting all these words in my mouth because you know you’re a misandrist at heart and that would destroy your “argument”.
And not once did you run away calling them all rapists while going to fetch a bear? Wow. Almost like your entire “I’d pick a bear” thing is a misandrist’s wet dream.
You getting away from a bear? Lmao.
https://www.popsci.com/environment/how-fast-can-a-bear-run/
Unless you’re Usain Bolt and it’s a sloth bear. Get a grip on reality, misandrist.
Oh yes I got the insult, thank you very much.
Misandry is not genuine human connection lmao.
I didn’t say black bear. Try polar bear for odds? I just took the combined bear odds. You’re just an idiotic troll.
Funny extra, notice how you only focus on the worst men, and the best bear. Almost like your argument would fall apart otherwise
What even is the bear argument if not that? In fact I’ve seen that written multiple times as the justification.
You clearly think about men all the time if you have enough time to defend your worthless talking point on lemmy.
My argument wasn’t contradictory, if you just stop and think about it. Yes I don’t give a fuck as in your singular experience doesn’t paint a larger picture.
And yes I do hope no one would be burned by getting interested in someone as toxic as you clearly are.
The bear isn’t 1 out of 10. It’s 5 out of 10. Conservative estimate.
Yet, because of your talking point which implies that men are worse than bears, due to the implicit argument you’re conveniently ignoring about some men being rapists (1 out of 10, remember?), you’d pick 50/50 odds of literally dying.
It’s just a misandrist talking point. Not rational. Purely emotional and made to create dissent and division. It’s inherently offensive to the 9/10 other, innocent men lumped in with the choice.
The typical crack back is that if you’re offended, you’re somehow part of the problem, a typical manipulation technique just to shut up opposition, because it’s not saying anything, just pointing fingers.
This whole thing is a big joke at the expense of men all over.
As someone who doesn’t give a fuck about you or your individual experiences, I say you sure are arrogant for assuming any man would be interested in you.
SJW spotted. Getting offended from a pro-lgbt shirt checked off the bingo card.