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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • NTA

    I feel like the only thing that might be even remotely be a mark against you is if it really was as quick turn as your post makes it seem. Even if it was a deserved ultimatum - if you allow them the option to break the news themselves, I think an allowance of a day or two to form the right way to break it to them might have been better for her current standing with the kids.

    But ultimately - no matter how much time you gave her to prep that speech, it likely wouldn’t have saved enough face for them to feel more cordial in the short term.