Don’t be too hard on yourself as there are a range of factors which come into play.

The very advantage of a dating app also happens to be its biggest problem which happens to be the option of having many to choose from. You’re not only competing for her attention but also against thousands of other guys in the same pool as you (based on your location/age etc).

All you can do is control your outlook here. There could be plenty more rejections down the road but do not let these instances downgrade your self-worth. Hope you find someone who likes you for who you are.

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Bumped into this app yesterday and it’s so user friendly! Can’t wait for more features to be added.

Typing this from WefWef. I love it so far.

Probably will test out Artemis and Memmy as well.

Hi there @JohnEdwa - I am a week late to respond to your comment but it helped me finally crack the basic level of understanding behind lemmy and kbin :) Not to forget the fact I can subscribe to different instances on Lemmy from lemmy.one which I signed up for when I joined Lemmy. Knowing what I now, I am able to check out other instances from Lemmy.one and subscribe to them!

I havent made a second account at all. On the contrary, I was trying to login using the same account. The thing I was and am still clueless about is how I can go about accessing Kbin with the same account created on Lemmy. I didnt even know that until you said it here. Lol

That makes more sense now. I was really lost around all these different servers and Reddit experience had spoilt me because it was so centralized by construct that I came in here expecting the same!

Thanks @DidacticDumbass@lemmy.one

Just as a follow up to your comment - is there a link or something where one can see how many different Lemmy communities exist? I’d be up for casting the net wide like you said and right now I am mostly hanging around lemmy one.

7 year 10 month long on Reddit and only ever used Apollo and previously Alien Blue until Spez decided to kill the joy out of both. Never posted much on reddit either. Happy to be here with everyone and contribute to Lemmy!