

Well, I willingly and voluntarily came out to my work this past week for the first time. The only other time I was outed to people. It is a highly progressive company with a much larger proportion of LGBTQ+ people than the surrounding population distribution, but I was still relieved that they were mostly accepting. This has been a deeply healing experience for me and has been a beautiful learning experience. I have never felt more free or appreciated then when I see people choose to use my pronouns, then when I have MY name on my chest, then when I can finally live as myself.






I will be blunt and personal. WHENEVER you see these quit masterbation apps/programs/methods they are almost always using the same methods as conversion therapy and WILL cause lasting harm to your ability to maintain a relationship. This is coming from someone who has experienced both repeatedly. I am just as anti quitting programs as I am against conversion therapy because they are in essence the same thing.