Melonius [he/him]

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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • I feel really bad criticizing other parents ways of raising their kids (I know I’m not perfect) but I do want to say something when parents just hand their kid a phone at restaurants and let youtube autoplay them to hitlers playhouse. We stood firm and now our kids can sit at the table for a while and worst case they get a piece of paper and some crayons to keep them distracted if we’re being too boring.

    I don’t plan to give my kids a phone for as long as possible. I think our friends are on the same page too but someone’s going to make the first move at some point. I’d like to keep it down to simple messaging apps so they can talk to each other but we’re not even at that stage with our kids so I have no clue how it’ll go.

    What’s the app for reading/writing letters that yours use?





  • I was talking with a parent some time ago. Her daughter was really sweet and sociable with everyone. She expressed some concern that she was struggling with finding a way to limit / curtail / correct (I don’t remember the exact wording) that behavior because it wasn’t always safe. At the time, I was thinking more about how crime is hyper focused in media so I pushed back a bit and said I didn’t think it was something she should worry about and it was great that her daughter was so outgoing and friendly. I discussed it with a friend and she reminded me that I’m a self-absorbed dude who’s never had to worry about that and I really regret saying it.

    If I could apologize to that parent now (maybe I’ll see her again idk) I’d say that it sucks that our society makes being such a wonderful person like her daughter so hazardous. I gave it 0 thought and talked out of my ass kitty-birthday-sad