Mirror the profile of actually happy, older people who have lives you would like to have.
Take care of your health, eat well and exercise.
Be successful: you don’t have to be rapacious, but there is a level of financial success and stability that definitely decreases stress and affords more opportunities, like travel and hobbies.
Be social: the happiest people have strong social networks.
Be wise: don’t worry about what you can’t change, but be engaged and try to make the world a better place.
Probably like me and our instance, it runs as an extra on a company server, there’s no risk of it going down, it’s negligible for costs.
It’s just been one of the most popular months for vacation, gone on vacation, will update Lemmy instance to latest version when get around to it.