I’ve never seen a truer post.

Pentapenis

Wow, that is a very cool concept. I, too, would like to back this.

Usually, they say it, but not directly to you. The attacking woman will tell another person in the group, and that person will usually tell the target woman what was said by the first woman just “because I thought you should know.” Very, very rarely is it said directly.

I also have seen a lot of people pull the move of talking too loud about things they hate about the target woman on purpose so that the target woman hears it, but can’t really confont the attacking woman because she “should mind her own business.”

I’m not sure what’s happening here, but I’m into it.

That was a perfect correction. I didn’t want to say anything because the joke was funny, and my thought process was pedantic, but you corrected it and kept it funny. Well done.

Please never stop posting these!

That has saved me more times than I care to count.

212 is the boiling point. Either way, that’s going to cause some nasty burns.

I agree with you. Actually, Lemmy woke me up to how much reddit had already been enshitified. I didn’t realize that I had stopped commenting altogether because the subs were so big that either no one saw your stuff, or there was always some one pissed off who felt the need to respond. Lemmy reminds me of reddit the way it was when I joined 12 years ago.

I live in the US and have a psychiatrist who I see about my depression and anxiety. I started seeing her because my suicidal thoughts were getting bad. When I talk to her about it, she usually asks if I have any sort of plan to carry it out and whether or not I have a gun at home. I think if I had a fully thought out plan that I was going to enact, she would have me be inpatient at the local hospital that specializes in mental health issues.

I don’t think bringing up self harm or suicidal thoughts would be enough to put you in a psych ward. I also think it’s important to be honest with your therapist so that they can properly help you.

I really hope you get the help you need. I know personally how hard it is to slog through life with depression weighing you down, and I hope that you’ll get some of that weight lifted. <3