Crossposted this in case of takedown. Hope this isn’t breaking the rules.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/1370464

Original Title: At least one lemmy.world admin accepted an off the record meeting with meta, and they won’t tell you about it.

Edit: I cannot confirm if the Original OP is telling the truth or lying, figured I wanted more people to see this so you can decide for yourselves who to believe.

Edit 2: Archived Link: https://archive.is/aJrnU

Edit 3: Hmm… Interesting… The original post was taken down instead of admins making a response. I mean, if I were an admin with nothing to hide, I’d just simply say “I did not have a secret meeting with anyone representing Meta/Facebook” then maybe lock the thread if stuff gets too out of hand. Deleting a post is not the right thing to do, and even if you are innocent, now you just made yourself look bad.

Archive Link of where the page was, now showing an error message: https://archive.is/5BWIw

Don’t belive me? Ask them.

Fosstodon admins were at least transparent and shared with their community when they were approached by meta for an off the record meeting, which was awesome. They also declined that meeting and shared screenshots of them doing so.

But lemmy.world admins won’t tell you that at least one of them accepted that same meeting request. Why won’t they say that?

Tell your community that you accepted a meeting with meta. Thats not wrong in and of itself, but I feel it is shady/not right when you’re communicating about a wait-and-see approach, while having meetings with the company in question yet not being transparent about it.

@ruud@lemmy.world care to comment?

Also, I’m spinning up my own instance because I don’t trust this platform to folks who aren’t transparent. Don’t ask me to join, it’s going to be just for me for now. I don’t even know that I have time to admin an instance, but my trust is wearing thin based on the facts at hand. So, it’s what I’m doing.

  • Alethe Crow@lemm.ee
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    Without proof it’s nothing more than speculation.

    This isn’t going to be a productive conversation without proof. There is also the point-of-fact that if there was a NDA involved with said person. They wouldn’t be allowed to speak on it with anyone not listed. So we wouldn’t honestly be allowed to know legally without getting that admin in trouble.

    Sure, they can approach any admin regarding federation. they still need approval of the Instance owner and the rest of the admin team as far as I’m aware.

    I am curious though. Why not just join an instance that has already outright stated they will not federate with Threads?

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      So we wouldn’t honestly be allowed to know legally without getting that admin in trouble.

      i have no idea whether any of the speculations are true or not, but purely theoretically, this is really lame excuse. if you are representing open source community, you shouldn’t be taking meetings where you have to sign nda.

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        Oh 100% agreed. It makes the NDA’s that have already occurred with all this even more sketchy.

        My personal guess is that these NDA’s are because of one of two reasons.

        Threads/Facebook talks about their specific proprietary software and how it functions etc.

        Threads/Facebook is offering money for access/federation to instances.

        It is entirely possible it’s also both at once thinking about it.

        I dislike Facebook with a passion along with Google. However as much as I dislike Facebook, proper discussion and information is essential. Without these things people tend to panic and assume worst case scenarios.

        People seem to have forgotten one of Zuckerbergs quotes.

        “ Zuck: People just submitted it. Zuck: I don’t know why. Zuck: They “trust me” Zuck: Dumb fucks”

        This was during the time he first released Facebook. It’s part of a chat transcript that was released and verified.

        Also during 2008 the FTC quoted Zuckerbergs own word at him during a trial.

        “It’s better to buy than to compete”

        This was from an email Zuckerberg sent earlier that year during the WhatsApp acquisition or near it.

        These two quote should tell everyone exactly what to expect from this company and person. Considering how their track record is atrocious.

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          It gives them a secret way to start deeper negotiations. Pretty much this is the end of any openness and community focus the instance has. The contents don’t matter as much as the symbolism of having participated. I’ll ask you Alethecrow, how many millions would it take you to agree to working for them and pretending to be working only for yourself?

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        All that matters about the OPs claim is that the admins need to say they aren’t contracted with meta, but they haven’t, which is damning evidence that they have signed at least one contract with Meta.

        It’s simple logic.

        1. Lies or truths about an NDA silenced meeting with Mastodon admins.
        2. Extrapolating that idea that an NDA may exist or have been signed onto all instance admins
        3. Asking for a statement from the admins proving that there are no NDAs in place with Meta by the lemmy.world admins

        Then reliable absolute silence about being contracted or not with Meta. Followed of course by mass downvotes when it makes no sense to do so.

        See all the bots saying the same silly responses over and over about no evidence, then massively downvoting people who are clearly rational.

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      I did actually switch from lemmy.world to lemmy.ml and turn off recurring donations just off of the weak admin announcement they made about Threads like “let’s just wait n see, hmmkay?”

      Umm. No, you’re in an anti-corporate environment full of refugees from greedy Reddit and you can’t denounce one of the worst corporate actors in the social media space and promise to have nothing to do with them? I have no idea if OP’s story is true, but I do know that they’re not the instance for me just from what they HAVE been willing to say.

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    What a ridiculous attempt at stirring a pot. Not only is it someone saying something that cannot be proven, but someone quoting someone saying something that cannot be proven….

    What if I were to spread it around that this is all a ploy from Reddit to fuck with the lemmy community and cause drama?

    Embarrassing.

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      People using an instance that appears to try to act and communicate transparently and asks for donations from the community to run the platform, should actually be transparent in my opinion.

      People can just go somewhere else, and no one is obligated to say or do anything, but users appear to value transparency, and I feel as a collective we should value open and honest discussion about issues like this rather than shutting it down or being confrontational or argumentative or rude about it.

      It might be nothing, it might be something: either way, people are entitled to feel they deserve to be kept informed. Whether they are entitled to or not is a different kettle of fish.

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      OP is asking for confirmation in an announcement - Copy pasting from my comment here


      All that matters about the OPs claim is that the admins need to say they aren’t contracted with meta, but they haven’t, which is damning evidence that they have signed at least one contract with Meta.

      It’s simple logic.

      1. Lies or truths about an NDA silenced meeting with Mastodon admins.
      2. Extrapolating that idea that an NDA may exist or have been signed onto all instance admins
      3. Asking for a statement from the admins proving that there are no NDAs in place with Meta by the lemmy.world admins

      Then reliable absolute silence about being contracted or not with Meta.

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        So if they don’t say they didn’t when asked if they did, then ipso facto, they did?

        I don’t think you or anyone gets to make that distinction. And the fact that you think you can, illustrates how this is an attempt at creating drama.

        How about this:

        Maybe it’s a dumb fucking question that they don’t feel obligated to answer? I mean, I would imagine that it’s damn near insulting to them to feel they have any reason to answer such a stupid and irrelevant question as it’s not up to you how they manage their instance.

        So yea. It’s purposefully stirring a pot. So stop.

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          The OP seemed desperate for confirmation before he felt compelled to leave. He was talking rationally in his post.

          If you have an entire secret meeting that’s NDA enforced, then you literally cannot speak about the existence or your participation in it legally.

          As a server admin, he should really be on top of stuff like this. It’d be a fairly quick thing to mention, and the fact that he didn’t means he likely signed an NDA. He doesn’t NEED to prove it, but everyone should turn their backs on him for not CHOOSING to prove it(because he likely cannot legally).

          Many people came here to escape exactly what is now happening. There will obviously be passionate people venting or trying to understand this. The people that are on your side though, tend to fight dirty and say invalid things. Meta is evil, i don’t want to be near it, a contract with meta starts the death of a thousand cuts, and people wont remember what we are saying when they finally leave.

          Meta is stirring the pot, the admins are. If i just knew they stood against what the average FOSS server stands for in their FAQ or something I would have never gone there, and neither would the people complaining. I can’t stress just how bad this is, but most people don’t know the deeper political/corporate side of this.

          I’m not starting convos about this anymore, just replying to other comments and the likes. I’d rather we get some basic transparency from the admins nearby, but I already left over it because of it.

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            It’s absolutely stirring a pot and its in bad faith. But I’m not creating posts all over and cross posting nonsense because of it.

            It’s none of anyone’s fucking business what they do with their instance. None. Period. Done.

            Dude said he denied a meeting. I believe him. If someone else didn’t- I don’t fucking care. And I think the fact that this matters so much to you should be a clear indication that you need a hobby. It’s a social media site. Nothing more.

            Stop taking this shit so seriously.

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              You are the one acting in bad faith and i suspect you don’t actually know what that means. I’m not denying that I’m also stirring the pot.

              You are correct that its up to their admins, I would just prefer a bit of a mission statement making it more obvious they have corporate ambitions.

              Dude said he denied a meeting. I believe him. If someone else didn’t- I don’t fucking care. And I think the fact that this matters so much to you should be a clear indication that you need a hobby. It’s a social media site. Nothing more.

              When did he deny? I haven’t been checking other posts lately. Link please

              I’m done with replying in this post, If you don’t give a link then you are the one acting in bad faith.

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    The answer to this scenario built into the fediverse. You bail on the bad instance and move to a new one. If the problem of profile transfers can be solved, then the whole thing becomes fairly trivial.

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    So… we’re just repeating unverifiable rumors now? What is this, high school? What’s the next post going to be, a list of who has a crush on who? Please.

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      The fediverse is particularly bad in this respect. In my time here (since Nov 2022) I’ve come to treat any unsubstantiated negative ad hominem opinion as essentially “fake news” … and honestly, everyone should. Twice I’ve paid attention to “an issue” as it was gaining traction and both times I’ve seen, in real time, the “chinese whispers” effect result in the “story” mutate right in people’s “mouths” as they post about it. Honestly, it’s worth chasing down such a thing at least once just to see it in action … it’s quite revelatory.

      It’s “sea lioning” to ask for receipts … but if you’re polite and well-meaning about it I think it’s totally justifiable about these sorts of things, not least because you’ll be surprised how many people just don’t have any (sometimes even when they loudly claim they do)! But also, because the rumour mill effect is real, sea lioning, at some point becomes a valuable antidote.

      There are probably a few factors that make this bad here (not that it’s good on any social media platform):

      1. Fediverse is kinda anti-viral … no algorithms etc
      2. But … bad news and scandalous rumours are the original viral algorithm baked into human psychology, so they have a way of rising to the surface in the absence of the generic rage/engagement about anything/everything that big-social feeds provide
      3. There are real and valuable concerns on the fediverse about ensuring the “culture” here doesn’t get bad and that certain values or morals are upheld. While good, such is an excuse for some to get zealous and excited to an excessive extent in the pursuit of and engagement with scandalous rumours.

      Combine that with how easy and satisfying it is to simply post a false/unsubstantiated statement without any consequences, and you get a rumour mill.

      Getting back to point 3 above … a valuable an important perspective on that is that actually achieving those goals is not a simple or trivial task. Instead, it is likely a boring, collaborative and deliberative task. So, the moment there’s any amount of excitement and engagement around a “bad person or act” on here … the moment you feel the need to click, read and respond … you’re probably just being driven by engagement habits and reflexes and not at all contributing to the goals and values that the “bad actor” has allegedly compromised.

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        That being said, on this point, I think it’s justifiable to ask for a clear statement from your admin about what relations they have with meta and what the federation or defederation policy is regarding threads. That was so ages ago, and IMO, fediverse admins have a thing or two to learn about being healthily communicative and transparent.

        It’s a growing pain as the fediverse transitions from “hacker side project” to “mainstream” … on which … be sure to donate and be part of the dialogue with admins as it’s probably the best way to organically evolve the culture around this.

        Ruud seems to me pretty transparent about things but I don’t know what has or hasn’t been said about meta/threads as I’m not on any of their instances. Given the size of their mastodon instance (top 5 IIRC), however, it’s very likely he was at least contacted and, I’d wager probably did have some meeting of some sort.

        Given the *.world instances are essentially mainstream, I’m going to bet that lemmy.world won’t defederate from Threads … which is honestly a reasonable position. But it’s also very reasonable to not want to be on such an instance and move.

        IMO, there doesn’t need to be “drama” around this. The fediverse isn’t one thing with one culture and one set of values. *diverse is literally in the name. Having options and freedom of association is the whole damn point. Talk, work out where you stand and where others stand and then act appropriately. There’s no giant conspiracy to destroy the fediverse here … we’re more likely to do that to ourselves with out propensity for “drama”.

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        So, the moment there’s any amount of excitement and engagement around a “bad person or act” on here … the moment you feel the need to click, read and respond … you’re probably just being driven by engagement habits and reflexes and not at all contributing to the goals and values that the “bad actor” has allegedly compromised.

        Ha! You’ve done a very good job of explaining why I was reluctant to reply at all, even to comment on how silly the whole thing seems. I didn’t want to throw fuel on the fire. I did it anyway, though, and just did again. Oh well.

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    Can we please shut up about Meta, there’s not a single point in the conversation, everyone has made up their mind, and now are spreading stupid school rumors, like, what the fuck y’all.

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      If you don’t like pizza, don’t go into a pizza shop and tell them to shut up about pizza? You coulda downvoted and moved on.

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        No, but if I go to a site that I enjoy, and I see people constantly removed and complaining about a single issue that we’ve all been over already, and I think maybe it’s enough?

        We can make better content than this.

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          There are honorable easy to talk about complaints, and there are dishonorable annoying people that can’t be reasoned with. The issue would be resolved in a minute if both parties were civil. This is an existential threat for lemmy.

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        Such a horrible analogy. How about-

        If you LIKE pizza, and don’t like people making up bullshit unprovable stories about it- they should be sent packing.

        This is a bullshit story without any substance or merit. It should be dismissed, and those staring the bullshit should be called out.

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          I’ve seen your username all over this thread and every single one of your comments was unpleasant. Yet you accused others of “stirring the pot” and “starting drama”. I don’t have an opinion one way or the other, I wasn’t even going to comment, but I thought that you needed to be called out.

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        Strange. I remember someone advertised lemmy to me as reddit alternative. Turns out, its place for circlejerk and being afraid of facebook.

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              It’d be sweet if people learned more and talked less, then they would have realised the nazis bad, and the end of the world wont happen because of that silly prediction.

              https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism_of_Facebook

              https://www.abc.net.au/religion/facebook-complicity-in-the-rohingya-genocide/13737882

              I haven’t fully verified those two, but they give a hint. If you’d like to stop assuming and start understanding why some people are deeply worried then you can try and learn.

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                Dont worry. Its entertaining enough for me that people were hyping lemmy and fediverse so much, and it turns out its all gonna crumble on itself the moment anyone big will join the hype lol. Makes it seem like it forever will be obscure place at the corner of the internet with decade old memes and circlejerk how good it is that nobody knows about them.

                Dont worry, i know that facebook is shit. Allthough your second link is bullshit too, considering that it boils to “how dares facebook not being more initiative to censor itself”. Itsjob of tge government to enforce censorshipon facebook, not the other way around. Still, most criticism is focussed around privacy and if people are afraid for their data, they shouldnt post it on public forums in the first place.

                Wonder whats next gonna be the danger for fediverse? Maybe lemmy.world getting too big? As you see maybe you already cant trust people who run it, maybe instances should defederate from it while its not too late?

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                  You mean it was the job of a government that, among other things, removed the Rohingya peoples citizenship, to censor Facebook here?

                  You literally have no idea what you’re talking about. International human rights watchdogs were the ones criticising facebook. Not blaming them either, but pointing out their complicity.

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    Really? Much ado about nothing, it seems. Just seems you’re looking for drama.

    Don’t like the admins of your instance? Don’t want to use an instance that may federate with Threads? Use a different one/host your own, which it seems you’ve said you’re going to do. That’s the beauty of the fediverse; you’re not behold to any instance owners you don’t wish to be. =)

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      The whole Fediverse is at danger from a EEE takeover by Meta.

      This isn’t a threat that can be dealt with by moving to another instance. That’s a death spiral.

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        If you believe wholesale every word of the doom mongering, sure.

        I personally think this is more in line with Meta’s actual strategy with regards to its interactions with the fediverse.

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          Oooof that is some grade A copium.

          I dare you to make a convincing business case for Facebook spending a single cent trying to capture a fraction of the second group, when it’s less than a percent the size of the first group.

          The idea of an independent fediverse is very dangerous to traditional social media and it’s worth its weight in gold to destroy it, especially before it gets too big.

          And dare I add, DUH.

          All of this is really obvious stuff that we’ve seen happen to hundreds of new technologies and small companies before. The idea that “no, it won’t happen to us, because reasons” is just sad.

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    Why did you really repost this?

    I saw the original several hours ago. I didn’t vote or comment because I had no way of knowing if the original author was lying or not. You, however, are just repeating an unverifiable rumor. I feel like I’m back in high school.

    You know perfectly well that if the original becomes unavailable, there will be no way for anyone to tell if this version is authentic or if it’s been altered. This isn’t a museum, or anything remotely close to a secure archive. You’re not helping anyone.

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    Doubt threads will even use activitypub. Tumblr said it was going to months ago. Never happened.

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    I share the apparent majority view that these basically are claims without any kind of evidence and there’s no basis for an outrage (yet).

    However, I do find this dynamic interesting to discuss the same topic on different instances. That’s unique to the Fediverse.

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      Typically yes, but in this case, there is no modlog for the reason of removal since the logs got purged by the admins. They forgot to delete the other log which says the user was banned and reason being “Misinformation”

      There a modlog button at the bottom of the page, you can see for yourself, but they might’ve be deleted by now.

      Edit: Apparantly, the user was only banned from the community, his account is still not banned.

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        Wow they banned the OP of that post 3 years from that community for misinformation. Do they have proof that it is misinformation?

        Banned

        @booty_flexx from the community Fediverse reason: Misinformation expires: in 3 years

        I could not find that post being removed from modlog. There were other removed posts but not that particular one

        Whats the point of modlog if it does not record everything for auditing purpose?

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    Oh I guess we better lynch them. I am sick and tired of this pathetic purity gang attacking everyone.