Trying to be slightly more open but keep some plausible deniability. Its dumb I know

  • Bicyclejohn@lemmy.mlOP
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    1 year ago

    That might be a bit difficult, everything I wear is pretty dark. Maybe I should get some new trousers

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      1 year ago

      I’d say dark is fine, but you could add a dash of color. That’s why jewelery is nice (it doesn’t need to be girly), or just wearing bright red socks with your dark clothes.

      Basically, if a guy looks “heteronormie” but had some sort of little intresting thing going on, that always gets my interest. Even if a guy isn’t actually bi (or gay/queer) the fact that he’s willing to take a step outside the “default” makes me think he’s probably open minded enough not to be offended, even if he’s not actually interested.