Sulvor [he/him, undecided]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 3 days ago

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Sulvor [he/him, undecided]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 3 days ago

Just kinda wondering if any other comrades have this specific thing.

I started hair pulling when I was like 8 or 9 and ended up giving myself a bald spot on my crown for a couple months. My parents noticed and scolded me, no other intervention.

Thankfully, I was able to restrain myself enough to prevent it showing on my scalp. To this day I continue on abnormally dark or coarse hairs, and now that I’m finally getting some grays it is so hard to resist spending and hour or two in the mirror getting them all.

I know this probably sounds weird or gross to most people, I’ve never been diagnosed with any sort of mental disorder so talking about it is a little weird to me.

I know it has overlap with OCD, and I’ve had other slight OCD symptoms.

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Someone close to me had a pretty strong case of this, also since late childhood/pre-adolescence. It wasn’t always uniform but they usually ended up wearing hats. The longest it ever subsided for was long enough for about 2 inches of hair all over their scalp, which felt like an accomplishment.

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