Yeah I know dating apps bad etc

I paid 17 dollars for the week pass allowing me unlimited likes 💀 of course because I’m desperate and they force you into that choice because using it for free you only get 5 free likes a day lmao. The problem is NOBODY fucking responds back to my messages, I’ve had 2 conversations out of 20 matches, one of the convos died after I asked them out, the other convo just ended abruptly for no apparent reason. It’s really demoralizing to say the least but I just don’t understand, if they don’t like me and accidentally sent a like they should just unmatch right away but they don’t.

The future is grim. How does anyone meet anyone anymore?

  • hogslayer [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    1 day ago

    dating apps offer such an incestuous pool of people who have all met and had sex

    I always hear this, but then why can’t I seem to get in on it?

    I’d be happy if I could just find a FWB or casual sex or anything like that. But I can’t even get that, and it just seems like either all the dating apps/sites are dead or I’m just not good enough for anyone’s standards.

    • EllenKelly [comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
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      1 day ago

      I havent used them since 2018, and I was meeting almost exclusively trans women, which i suspect coloured my experience somewhat. Previous experiences dating cis women netted me a grand total of three dates in an entire year.

      I can’t hack casual sex, but I think thats what people used to go to clubs for

      not really the vibe of this site and I dont want to engage in doxing anyone, but you could get a friend to check your profile maybe?