I agree, in my experience in person stand-ups are much better than online.
People don’t want to sand around and want to get back to their desk.
Parking lot discussions can just be handled in the hall outside the meeting room 90% of the time and don’t require adding a new meeting to a calendar, although if there is only one issue that needs further discussion we just usually let everyone else drop call and handle it then.
I agree, in my experience in person stand-ups are much better than online.