artificialset [she/her, fae/faer]@hexbear.net to anti_cishet_aktion@hexbear.netEnglish · 11 months ago
artificialset [she/her, fae/faer]@hexbear.net to anti_cishet_aktion@hexbear.netEnglish · 11 months ago
Have any queer vibes to share? Here’s your place!
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed!
I feel kind of liberated in the sense that I really don’t feel as beholden to conform to the hetero gender norms around dating women. Instead, I just imagine dating the person who I have the most mutual attraction and comfort around. They could be any gender now. That’s self care in the sense that I am relieving myself of the anxieties around that.
I’m kind of new to looking at myself as part of a queer community. Yet, I feel more and more a profound sense of gratitude for those comrades who have fought so many battles so that everyone can have a place to be themselves.