• SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz
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    My sister will do this all the time.

    She will also ask for rides home from work. Last time I got there at the allotted time, she texted me and said “okay! I’ll be another half hour!”

    I don’t give her rides anymore.

    Shit’s disrespectful as fuck.

  • Monz@pawb.social
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    1 year ago

    People that disrespect others time are not friends of mine.

    I don’t care what level of important any person puts on something they planned. Show up on time or don’t make a promise at all.

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    1 year ago

    A couple of my friends are really bad about this. It’s like wasting my time is a sport to them lol. No part of me wants to kick them repeatedly in the shins for being 2 hours late to something for eternity. No part at all…

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      We had one person in my friend group who was exactly 30mins late every time. Whenever we would make plans we would pretend to meet 30mins earlier to “offset” the lateness. It never worked bc whenever we would do this they would show up an hour after the fake planned time which meant they were still exactly 30mins late to the real start time.

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        Just ignore their arrival when this happens. They probably enjoy being center of attention for a bit when they show up, if you just carry on like they were always there, it’ll probably stop.