My present theory is that dreaming is an active, tho unconscious, deed. So step 1 is to make the unconscious, conscious. And then step 2 is to stop dreaming.
More mundane examples : Turn off the movie. Quit the game. Close the book. Alarm clock goes off.
But that’s just me. I want to hear your opinions on this subject.
Look at a clock,
Look elsewhere
Look back at the clock. If the time has changed significantly, you are dreaming.
Try removing your tongue to wake up.
Found the lucid dreamer.