• Tikiporch@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    18
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    10 months ago

    “How are you?” as part of a greeting is a phatic expression in the English language. In the context described, the first person doesn’t actually care how you are either.

    Willy Wonka would disapprove.

    • torpak@discuss.tchncs.de
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      10 months ago

      You can always defend the meaningfulness of this expression by answering honestly and at length. Which is what I usually do. Either people are genuinely interested in my well being or they learn not to talk to me. Win - Win.