I understand that not everyone is fortunate to have money saved to be able to have the leeway to leave jobs whenever they feel like it and so forth. But I just feel like people have lost their sense of self-respect when it comes down to employment.

I am a firm believer that if you are working at a toxic place and are being harassed or bullied, to stand up to that behavior and tell them that you’re not going to take their shit, and if they continue you fucking quit and never look back.

I have known people who have not had a savings who have done this in the past and they end up finding a decent job that doesn’t treat them like shit. Do you feel like job Seekers don’t defend themselves anymore?

    • PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.comOPEnglish
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      10 months ago

      Wow I’m sorry you had to experience that man. I know better things are on their way to you.

      From what you’ve said, what would you say to the ppl who think taking shit from an employer is ‘fine’ ?

        • PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.comOPEnglish
          322·
          10 months ago

          "I got overloaded with work and not listened to when I had issues. I eventually got fired. So for me at least, trying to sacrifice my dignity for money just straight up failed.

          This is what I feel like people miss. Your dignity is valuable you have dignity as a person, you don’t let people disrespect you. And the more you allow that behavior the more you’re inviting it in. And you will get more of it.

          For people who think it’s normal I would have to ask, well where do you draw the line then? If they ask you to get on your knees and kiss their shoes in front of everybody is that okay? They’re not putting hands on you or getting physical they’re just requesting this of you are you going to accept that? That’s humiliating.

          Just because somebody owns a company and is your boss gives them absolutely no right to treat you like fucking dirt.

          And the more people realize that, and show people that they are not to be disrespected, the better their life will be and the better relationships they will form and have in their lives.

          Thank you so much for what you wrote and I’m glad you’re in a better place. You really touched on a lot of important points and I feel like people really need to see this.