Sometimes there’s a real humdinger of a comment, like a real 
that I’d like to reply to, but I find that it only shows up on lemmy.ml and not here. Is that expected behaviour?
Sometimes there’s a real humdinger of a comment, like a real that I’d like to reply to, but I find that it only shows up on lemmy.ml and not here. Is that expected behaviour?
In addition to potential bans or defeds, it is also possible for a backlog to develop in the incoming / outgoing message queues. I had this happen on matapacos once and at its worst, all incoming messages were delayed by about 16 hours. I have noticed on Lemmy when you subscribe to a remote community for the first time (out of anybody on your instance) it takes a few minutes for all the comments to fill in, even after the post listing is visible.