• idiomaddict@feddit.de
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    1 year ago

    Bruh. This is a bad housemate. If your housemate is depressed for four months and you are this close with them, fucking talk to them earlier.

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        1 year ago

        The surprised tone, sharing this indicates that there hadn’t already been a conversation about the silence in the house. They could have talked about it every day of those four months, but it doesn’t read like that to me

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      1 year ago

      Nothing about this indicates that the housemate didn’t talk to them. They very well could have been part of why they’re singing again!

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      1 year ago

      Depression is a little more complicated than that, which I’m sure you know, but I think that is a necessary consideration.

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        1 year ago

        Absolutely, but checking in is a must. It won’t fix it, but show people you care about them when they’re in the shit, not when they pull themselves out of it

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          What I’m saying is that they probably did talk. It could be inferred by the nature of their relationship that the housemate pays so much attention to their well-being. Nothing says or implies conversations didn’t happen around depression. But as you said, talking about depression isn’t a cure. It is complicated.