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  • Webster@lemmy.worldtoScience Memes@mander.xyzCEPHALOPODS
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    2 months ago

    It’s so hard to figure out this stuff … but as a guy into computers who was debating going into academia instead of the field, this is what I did …

    I took the money, but lived like I had only the academic salary and invested the rest. 15 years in, life is pretty cushy, I’ve found a relaxing niche in my field that I like my job, but it’s basically optional as long as I stay willing to live like an academic. But there were definitely some pains to get here. I might quit and go back, I might quit and travel, or quit and do a start up, but I like my job a lot now so I’m keeping at it.








  • Welcome to a life of investing. I started investing in '08 and everything that was a once in a generation crash. And in '10 when the market recovered, so many thought it wasn’t real. And as the market kept going up '11-'15, so many kept claiming the crash was coming so it was smart to change your investments. I saw so many run for the hills in the dips in '15 and '16 and then completely miss the run up over the next few years. I have some colleagues that panicked following the COVID19 dip, and never got back in and missed the recovery and new all time highs.

    The truth is your entire lifetime of investing, it will always feel like this time is different. This time it’s obvious we’re about to crash or it’s obvious we’re about to go on a run or it’s riskier than it’s always been. I’m not going to tell you the market is going to be up in the next year, or next five years, or next ten. But since the late 1800s, a great strategy has been to just keeping investing over time and not trying to time the market.

    Initially, your swings of hundreds of dollars will keep you up at night, but if you keep at it, eventually those swings will be in the thousands or tens of thousands and you’ll be able to handle them better. I can’t promise you you’ll win with this type of set it and forget it strategy, but there has yet to be a period of a couple of decades in US History than you haven’t ended up a winner if you have that long term horizon.



  • I used the first two, but just enjoy the experience of sync better. If sync didn’t exist, I’d be just fine and happy still. But I currently browse Lemmy 30 minutes to an hour each day, so $20 for no ads is something I’ll probably eventually pay for the hundreds of hours I’ll use the app.



  • Webster@lemmy.worldto> Greentext@lemmy.mlAnon asks about ARFID
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    1 year ago

    Someone very close to me suffers from ARFID. Imagine if you will that you were in the situations above. How long would it be before you tried eating dog poop? If people were telling you dog poop was safe and healthy and the only way to survive yet for your entire life you’ve known otherwise.

    This isn’t the greatest example, but that roughly gives you an idea of what someone with ARFID might be struggling with in those moments and why it is different than just picky eating.