When people think of their perfect lover, they tend to think of all the things they want. They ask the goddess of love for a man with tanned skin, blonde hair, abs, a fit body from meditation and who is a foreigner so you can get married to them and leave the country. People tend to forget that in order for this to work, the personality of that person has to be one that you can devote yourself to and will not have a problem with some of your more questionable behaviors.

Let’s say that you don’t like corporations so you shoplift. Someone from another country where most transactions are done through small businesses, will not understand the dynamic between the corporations and the people in the United States. This can cause friction in your relationship when your new ideal partner doesn’t understand the struggle between classes and does not accept your behavior. You might want a partner that has similar beliefs to yourself if possible, or if the beliefs are different that they are open-minded and accept your autonomy and life choices.

Another thing to consider is fidelity and whether you yourself will be the partner that this person deserves. It can be a bit of pressure, but if you are truly a person who would never cheat, lie, or cause tension in your relationship it’s more likely you could manage to keep it going.

It would be best to memorize a love mantra you really like, and say it to yourself in the shower or while meditating, or right before bed. This will help you to attract the correct person into your life.

Shiawase.