• aidan@lemmy.worldM
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    1 year ago

    When spending that time is the difference between success and poverty, I don’t see it as extreme at all.

    Not for the education, for the diploma.

    You seem to feel they should have full agency, so should they be allowed to consent to sex?

    It seems like you want me to say that- I already I explained my reasoning for not. I also don’t think they should be allowed to buy hard drugs or alcohol.

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      1 year ago

      I don’t see the functional difference between not being allowed to consent to refuse to go to school and not being allowed to consent to have sex if this is about freedom of choice.

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            1 year ago

            Sure

            This is why we don’t allow children to consent to sex, something I hope you would agree with.
            

            The difference is opting into something vs opting out of something, it is much easier to make the decision of opting out rather than opting in- as well as significantly less harmful. Furthermore, in the case of sex the child is being exploited- it is disgusting to compare this.

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              1 year ago

              Ok, can a child also opt out of cancer treatment if they think it sounds scary? Let the child die if they want to?

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                1 year ago

                It depends, but in most situations I’d say probably not. But that is also very different from 13 continuous years for 8 hours a day.

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                  1 year ago

                  Only the amount of time spent is different. So why not? Both are choosing to opt out of something. Are you saying children should only be allowed to opt out of things that take a certain length of time?

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                    1 year ago

                    I’m saying life unfortunately isn’t black and white and sometimes in practical situations you must weigh cost and benefit.